人生之三

小编: 述安纯.

Life can not be all right, we must accept a real and flawed world, and defects in a certain situation can reflect the unique beauty. But it should be emphasized that the beauty of defect is the beauty of appearance defect and connotation beauty. Happiness is that you can accept defects and live in a defective environment. The meaning of free life is to keep the inner truth, goodness and beauty, adapt to the defective society and live happily.

Some people say that life has three realms. The first is to see whether the mountain is a mountain and the water is water; the second is to see whether the mountain is not a mountain and the water is not water; and the third is still to see whether the mountain or the mountain and the water or the water.

The first is in the initial stage of life. It can be a babbling child, or it can be a young person with a little love. At the beginning of a person‘s life, he is pure and knows the world for the first time. All of them are fresh. What his eyes see is what they see. When someone tells him that this is a mountain, he knows the mountain; when he tells him that this is water, he knows the water. A person in his or her love age, the purity of love is so firmly believed. Say love is love, say hate is hate, love and hate are clear.

As we grow older and more experienced, the complexity of the world becomes apparent. In society, black and white are often reversed, right and wrong are confused, unreasonable people go around the world, reasonable things are hard to do, good people have no good reward, evil people live for thousands of years, holy love is often trampled, and social ethics is often just not there. In this stage, people are angry, unfair, worried, questioning, alert and complex. People don’t want to believe anything more easily. At this time, I feel that the mountain is not as lofty as before; I sigh at the water,The water is not so clear. Use the ancient to satirize the present and point out the mulberry and scold the locust. Cynicism arises. The original pure mind is defiled. To see the world with a polluted mind is like a pair of stained glasses. Everything is dirty. This is the second level of life. Everything around is the carrier of man‘s subjective will. At this time, people have no spiritual goals, and all behaviors are based on self-interest. It will be a day when we can see the height of the mountain, climb ceaselessly, strive for victory, edify our hearts with utilitarianism, racking our brains, calculating all the difficulties, never ending and satisfying. What morality, what human relations are often rigid, are left behind. Self interest is the rule of life.

If a person stays at this stage of life, he will suffer this life. Because the world is originally a circle, there are people outside people, and there are days outside the sky. It goes back and forth, green water flows for a long time. And human life is short and limited, where can we care about eternity and infinity? If people don’t have spiritual support, they work hard for material wealth all day long, and then spend their lives and dreams. Why bother!

Many people reach the end of life when they reach the second level of life. Pursue life, toil life, cynicism life, finally found that they have no ideal, can not talk about achieving their own ideal, so hate life. But some people, through their own practice, have finally raised themselves to the third level of life. The maosaidunkai, @ to nature. Have a correct understanding of the world and life. Realize that people are not living in a sterile vacuum. This society, like the nature, has the fragrance of birds and flowers,There are also beasts and poisonous herbs. Everything in life can‘t be done at will. Perfection is just a word definition. At this time, people will put down their mind and accept the fact that they could not accept. Concentrate on what you should do and don’t care about others. Let the world of mortals roll on, I‘ll be in the clear. In the face of the mundane affairs, laugh it off, why not? At this time, people look at the mountains, which are still majestic and majestic, only occasionally there will be flash floods, falling rocks; look at the water, which is water again, only occasionally there will be wind surges, and the silt will be lax.

When I was young, I was full of beautiful imagination about life, ideal and love. Study hard and take exams seriously. At the end of the 1970s and the beginning of the 1980s, Chinese people were just liberated from the confinement of the cultural revolution, full of good hopes for the future of the country and its own future. At this time, the mentality of men, women, old and young people is also like the young people’s initial acquaintance with the society, which are all beautiful. At that time, the teacher was the real soul engineer, working wholeheartedly for the students and working overtime without pay. The society at that time was fair and just in the eyes of these students.You can go to what kind of school if you have good grades. Even if they fail, they will not complain. As the sage said, “don‘t complain about the heaven, don’t pay special attention to people, go to school and get to the top.” The spirit of. It‘s the same emotionally, pure as water, perfect first. It must also be the result of orthodox education.

The emotion of life is just like this. The first friend is the last. Young friends, like-minded, like-minded, have the longest friendship that has nothing to do with interests. The adult brain has the subconscious driven by interests, and it’s easy to bring the intention of replacing interests with friends after adulthood. These friends are just friends who help each other‘s interests in life, not friends who help each other’s emotions and thoughts. For emotion, we gradually understand that there is no perfect world and no perfect person. Life in the world, grain, seven emotions and six desires. A man is not a sage, but a man can do nothing wrong. But to achieve “no one who has no fault, can change over, nothing good.”.You can‘t be harsh on others or yourself. Be harsh on others and hurt yourself. Be harsh on yourself and hurt your parents. Those who love you only want you to be happy, not to be sages.

Life can not be all right, we must accept a real and flawed world, and defects in a certain situation can reflect the unique beauty. But it should be emphasized that the beauty of defect is the beauty of appearance defect and connotation beauty. Happiness is that you can accept defects and live in a defective environment. The meaning of free life is to keep the inner truth, goodness and beauty, adapt to the defective society and live happily.